Caution About Spanking Videos
Activities on any given video do not necessarily represent situations Ms. Margaret or SCONY members feel are appropriate. If you are new, understand that videos never represent styles of play that coincide with the interests of more conservative players. Not all spankos get overly concerned with nudity, uncovered genitalia, sexual scenes, bruises, welts, heavy play and extreme humiliation. Videos are not real life. Be careful what you wish for.
If you are new to being a top, please don't assume that all bottoms have the tolerance of video actors. Start slow and be respectful of the limits and boundaries the bottom is communicating to you. If you are a new bottom, make sure your top understands the style of spanking to which you have consented (playful, discipline, sensuous, erotic).
Express your tolerance and be sure you have a way to communicate a safety signal if you're having a problem. Tops and bottoms can use safe words if things don't feel right. Both parties should be enjoying the scene. All activities should be safe, sane and consensual. Your goal is to bring mutual pleasure to each other and finish the scene with both parties happy. For more advice for newbies, check out the articles Advice for Newbies to Spanking and Play vs. Abuse.
While I have respect for the interests of the BDSM community, I find their taste with spanking has an exaggerated dungeon/master/slave and overly erotic slant to it. That would be their right, but it has nothing to do with what old-fashioned, OTK spankers enjoy. Domestic and natural settings are more our taste. Erotic spanking is only one of five styles that are identified in our community. There is no BDSM play at Ms. Margaret's spanking parties. Very important: Please familiarize yourself with SCONY's protocols before attending any SCONY events, including chats and forum discussions.
I do not make my own videos. Someday when they improve the sound, lighting, costumes and actors (especially), I would like to direct my own art film. If you are a talented, independent film maker with access to people who can act, email me.
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